Differences between unhealthy worries Vs. Healthy worries

                                    Nowadays, a lot of people are so worried about a lot of stuffs that makes us so crazy and even so bombarded with all of those negative thoughts.We tend to overthink a lot specially when we do nothing. A lot of things that will suddenly pop-up and will slowly poison our minds.It’s like a virus that will leave our minds to be corrupted and worst become a mental disorder.The best way to get rid of this dilemma is to keep yourself busy, so that you will become productive, with enough rest as well. Now, I’ll be giving you some differences between unhealthy worries and healthy worries.These are the following I’ve come up with:

1.  Unhealthy worries will make us so exhausted and even broken-hearted for some strings in our heart will get affected. For example, you worry too much about what might happen tomorrow when tomorrow doesn’t think about itself so, why worry about tomorrow when you have today that will make the best results of your tomorrow. Tomorrow will just be the outcome of your today.So, make the best of your life at the present time. Left, the thoughts undone behind, and keep moving forward.

2. Unhealthy worries will cause us, unhealthy relationships. In fact, when you doubt at the same time worry too much about what’s going on in your relationship now, then it will just make your relationship so toxic.Unhealthy worries will devastate the good shape in your neophyte relationship specially if you guys are just starting to build a good, irreplaceable kind of relationship.So, just put this in mind,when you have these worries in your head  have a good heart-warming communication with your partner, this is what you call as; heart-to-heart talk. By doing this, it can ease all your doubts and worries behind especially when you look straight into your partner’s eyes and you can see that, those eyes are glittering from the blazing fire of his real and sincere love for you.Then, you don’t have anything to worry about.Trust it all to God and He will always be the center of your relationship and your life.

3. Unhealthy worries will fail us and left us so ruined emotionally and even mentally. For example, when you are in a competition and your team relies in you so much being the captain bull or the head of the team, of course the responsibility and the cross is in you. Even if you know you were having all the kind of training  that you need but just because of one flaw during the said competition you already have this thought in your mind, “we won’t make it anymore.” You immediately lose hope, just because of that one negative thought that pulls you down including your team. These kind of worry really fail us and bring us down.

Now, let’s take a look about the possible outcome of healthy worries.

1. Healthy worries will help us to do more and become better until we will become the best version of ourselves. You will gain the good result of this especially when you know you lack something and you need to put an extra effort in achieving that certain goal so that you can be an effective individual, with a specific role in your community at work and in your locality. This thought will bring out the best in you. It will transform you to someone efficient and more able to become what you want to be in your life. You already know, that you need to work hard more on it or in this aspect in your life.
   
   
   2.Healthy worries will create good and healthy relationship by the grace of God. Trust towards each other with your partner is one of the key for a healthy relationship. The best trust is when you completely trust to God the process in your ongoing relationship especially when both of you are already mature enough to manage your relationship. Healthy worries in this point, will create a deeper understanding and patience at the same time faith to your partner and to our Heavenly Father. For only Him knows, what’s the best for us.We just need to take heart and trust God and to continue, loving so true with all faithfulness. For building a commitment with your partner is a big thing and it would be better that as early as now, you have that sense of faithfulness to your partner that will lead to a lifetime commitment in God’s grace.
   
   3.Healthy worries will lead us to our sweet victory. It is because we worry so that we will even work harder and concentrate to our goal without minding what others will say against us. We already have it, by claiming and conditioning our mind what’s the best for us that we can definitely achieve and even have. It’s a matter of attracting only thoughts that will help us and sustain us, to overcome all those struggles in going through it,lastly, towards attaining your main goal or your dream in life. These type of worries will help us to determine the lies of our enemies that may bring us down and the truth that may bring us happiness. 

Although it’s hard to clearly spot what are the differences, but one thing is sure when you focus on the good and know what are your capabilities yet you still don’t believe in yourself too much, for you know you can’t do anything without the grace of God and His instrument of love that can be found to our neighbors the so called “Heaven sent beings” into your life. Always seek the guidance and light from God and He will always make your paths straight and prosperous. It’s the best time to switch your thoughts into a healthy worry.It’s alright to be worried but not most of the time for in that case it would be such a big problem. Switch your bad thought into a good thought this will help yourself at ease and relief. Be happy and don’t worry.